Two months have gone by since I last posted....and we are barely breathing!!!
Football and school have consumed us, eaten us up and have spit us out!!! I can't believe we are now sitting in October...13 days into October none the less.
Tyler and I have become
those people that have filled just about every waking moment with FOOTBALL, Bingham Little League football to be exact. Ty got sucked into coaching, so that Tate's coach from last year could get Tate, and I was sucked into to
helping with Team Mom duties...unfortunately, those
helping duties have become more like full-time duties. Davis and Owen must believe they have THE best mom ever because they get to spend 2 hours of just about each day at the park playing!!!
If I said the coaching and team mom duties were awesome...I am lieing!! I actually hate the coaching thing. I am usually a single mom until 9 pm, most evenings, Ty and I hanging out at the park during football is gone, my insanely intense partner is standing on the sidelines during games instead of nervously pacing the sidelines with me, Owen has a standing babysitter on Saturday's because I can't do him, football and pictures all by myself. I know Ty has enjoyed it, so I can't hate it that much, but I definetly don't like it!! The team mom duties just about killed me over in the first few weeks...but that has mellowed as well, at least for now. Things are about to explode as playoffs and end of year things are coming!!!
But, oh it is all so worth it when I see Tate do so well!! He is having an amazing year!!! He is playing both ways, offense and defense again, and does not come off the field. He is playing middle linebacker on "D" and halfback/running back on "O", he is the defensive captain and is a true leader on his little team. It has been fun to be his mom this year, as every parent on our team has complemented Tate and his abilities on the field, and go on and on about how good he is!! He is so fun to watch and he loves it so much!!

At the end of each week, we find ourselves, exhausted and wishing the weekend hadn't passed so fast. Ty and I try to find time on Saturday's to spend it together. And are grateful that Tate sees the importance of giving us that time, sometimes begrudgingly, but as soon as we say, how many days did we spend at football or helping you with homework, he obliges!!! He is a good kid, with a lot going on. I had a meltdown yesterday over Tate. Sixth grade is HARD!! And I know all of you with older kids say just wait...but with football and the teacher that is deemed the "hardest" teacher in the school, Tate is barely breathing. I feel bad for him, he has no life, he has no down time. He comes home from school, starts his homework immediately, Monday he had no football and he was doing homework from 4 till 10 pm!!! On football days he does his homework until he goes to football and then comes home and does homework till its time for bed, shoving down dinner somewhere in between there. School has come so easily for Tate, but this teacher is really pushing him and his scores show it, but as a mom I am trying to sit back and not panic about things, hoping that it will all come together in the end and he will be better because of the harder stuff he is doing. I love his teacher, she is super sweet, but she will have Tate whipped right into shape when it is time to start 7th grade...and that is what I have to keep telling myself!!!

Davis is doing so well in the 1st grade!! He has a great teacher as well and really seems to be loving it. He loves that he is big and can have lunch at school!! I love to watch Tate and him get up in the mornings and get ready for school side by side. This is the only year that they will be together like this in the mornings and at school. After this year they will always be in different schools!! That is kind of sad!! I love to hear Davis' stories about recess and happenings in the class!! His teacher has told me how good and mellow he is in class and is always so respectful!! That is one thing about Davis, he doesn't like to embarrassed, so he will be on his best behavior...until he gets home of course!!!
Ty and I do the "divide and conquer" on homework...that sucks!!! We come home from football, I fix dinner, Ty helps Tate and Davis with homework, we eat, we clean up, Ty helps Tate with Math and I help Davis with reading. We put the kids to bed and go and crash on the couch downstairs...too exhausted to even talk...we pull ourselves to bed and then get up and do it again the next day!!!
We are livin' the Dream!!!
But, today we go off track for 3 1/2 weeks and I am pretty certain I am more happy about it than my boys! So for 3 weeks we get to do NOTHING...other than football of course!! But when we go back on track...football will be over!!!
Livin' the dream....